Our experiences of difference can teach us to notice difference beyond ourselves. The Left Handers movement is not about left side versus right side. It is about recognising the normalised forms of exclusion that can become almost invisible when a world is designed around what is considered the norm.
But acknowledging our own experience does not mean claiming someone else’s.
Being left-handed and being Deaf are not equivalent experiences. They carry different histories, identities and realities.
The connection is more modest: an experience of difference can make us more attentive to others.
I know what it means to experience difference. That does not mean I know what it means to experience every other form of exclusion. But perhaps my own experience gives me a reason to pay closer attention.
There is a danger that our experience of being different becomes a wall around our identity—a boundary that draws our concern inward and makes our own experience the measure of what exclusion looks like.
But it can also become a doorway.